lunes, 27 de febrero de 2012

Bullying at Home (Family Bullying)
Bullying at home can be caused by many problems: economic, emotional, or physical. There are others   such as a parent loses, parent loses their job, an illness, a new baby or a marriage breakdown can cause serious conflict. Also, a new marriage creating a stepmother or father, along with stepbrothers or sisters, moving into the home will change the dynamics of a family. An adult or sibling can have problems with drugs, alcohol or other substances which may create bullying behavior.
Bullying in the home can be physical violence or verbal and emotional abuse. Sometimes it includes both.
Verbal abuse and emotional abuse can include name calling, constant fault-finding or , never giving praise or not even acknowledging your existence. The bully may try to set people within the family against each other by telling lies about the other person to provoke arguments.
Bullying at home can make you feel very alone and frightened.
You many want to talk to someone who won't judge you or tell you what to do, but who will listen to your thoughts, fears and feelings. Befriending centers can help. You don't have to tell them who you are, and everything you say will be treated in complete confidence.
The following links provide further information and support about bullying at home.
IS BULLYING LEARNED AT HOME
the parents of the kid for abuse can be demanding, directive, and unresponsive – which can lead kids to bully their peers at school. This parenting style is in direct contrast to a gentler parenting style, which is more nurturing, warm, and responsive. Children raised in non-authoritarian homes are less likely to bully at school.
“Children learn from their parents how to behave and interact with others,” Sweeney says. “So if they’re learning about aggression and angry words at home, they will tend to use these behaviors as coping mechanisms when they interact with their peers.”
Posted by: Sebastian Toro

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